Why don't Black Men Take Care of their Kids!

Is he a nigga because he don't take care of his kids? Is he a man because he spends time with his children but does not give any financial support? Or does he give you money every blue moon? Or what's worse having a "baby daddy" that live in with you selling drugs having people in and out the house creating an unsafe environment for you and your child(ren) does that make him a man? Well why is it that society places the blame on these men saying "Have a slave mentality" People we need to get our facts straight the slaves were forced to leave there wives and children their wives and children were bought off to different slave masters never to see each other again and they wanted to be there but they couldn't and now the men are making the babies and choosing not to be there. And now society sees the after affects of the broken home and it is tragic we have grand-mothers raising children and grand-children and the grand children are having children and in all this where are the fathers and the grand fathers they are no where to be found? Someone please answer this how long will this broken home cycle continue? Or how long will we let this cycle continue?

Like Tupac said ".....We'll create a race of babies that would hate the ladies"

MY MAMA LOVES OBAMA

i DON'T KNOW IF YOU ALL ARE KEEPING UP WITH THE CAMPAIGN BUT IT LOOKS LIKE OBAMA VOULD BE THE DEMOCRATIC CANDIDATE TO GO AGAINST REP MITT ROMNEY HILARY CLINTON IS DOING SOME VERY DEVIOUS THINGS TO CHANGE THE PEOPLES MINDS ABOUT OBAMA BUT THE AMERICAN PEOPLE HAVE SPOKEN AND I BELIEVE THEY ARE SAYING WE WANT OBAMA!!!!!!AND WITH OPRAH BACKING HIM THIS MAN IS UNSTOPPABLE DEVELOPING STORY

IF the MAN ain't takin I dont want him

LADIES LADIES LADIES!!!!! When is a man off limits?
When do the red flags go off that tell u he will never be my man because he belongs to someone else?

• How do we take it upon ourselves to sleep with someone else's MAN or even worse someone else's HUSBAND!!!!!
• And how dare u think that this man is your man!!!!!! (Well he ain't cheating on me cause he ain't sleeping with his wife?) (yes this was a real comment) Come on ladies have some self respect anyone!!!!!

I know statistically there are not enough men for every woman but why can't we have them all to our selves? I love my man and I want him to be my man and only my man How do i keep him to my self

Who is more at fault your man or the other woman ?
Infidelity or "cheating" as we young people like to say why do all the men want there cake and eat it 2!!!!!!!!!!!!

IF you are unsure about the person you are dating research them at a fav sight: www.dontdatehimgirl.com

Being famous a gift or a curse?

Many of today's stars are stars because they have a God given talent and they are able to express themselves. Rapping and singing about sex, guns, and drugs. What about our souls the cost of fame and fortune is it that because they make a deal with the Devil? So many people are constantly in the gossip sites because they want to be in the know u know( ha) But is it really a curse to be famous I mean look at Brittany Spears and her sister they need some serious prayer I mean most people are famous and they have some kind of addiction drugs, men, and they are losing there mind look at Whitney Houston she is a legend and her whole life that she worked for is up in smoke.. (ha ha ) what do we do when u have a 36% graduation rate for high school but you have kids takin bout they wanna rap where my weed at? And little girls sayin they bootylicious what is a girl 2 do how can we gain our society back? No one wants to go to school no one wants to be educated because they think they can become famous with the stroke of a pen and have everything but I am a firm believer of The Notorious B I G when he said mo Money Mo problems....... Let me know what do u think?
Sincerely yours
Pisces Princess

PLASTIC DISASTERS

CHANGE THIS, LIFT THAT, TUCK THAT. wHAT HAPPENED TO BEING HAPPY WITH THE WAY GOD MADE U? SO MANY OF US WANT TO CHANGE OUR APPEARANCES TO AN IMAGE OF HOW SOCIETY SAYS WE SHOULD LOOK . I HAVE CONSIDERED GETTING SOME WORK DONE MYSELF. IN MY QUEST TO FIND PERFECTION I DECIDED TO DO SOME RESEARCH AND SEE WHAT IS INVOLVED IN GETTING THESE PROCEDURES AND THE COST. IF YOU ARE CONSIDERING GETTING ANY PLASTIC SURGERY YOU MIGHT WANT TO CHECK OUT THIS INFO AS A PART OF YOUR RESEARCH.

BREAST AUGMENTATION:

• IMPLANTS CAN BE INSERTED IN DIFFERENT WAYS: UNDERNEATH THE FOLD OF THE BREAST GOING THROUGH THE DARK PART OF THE NIPPLE OR INSERTING THE IMPLANT IN THE UNDERARM OR AXILLA AREA.
• SOME SURGEONS PLACE BREAST IMPLANTS THROUGH THE BELLY BUTTON TO AVOID SCARRING
  

Two types of implants can b used Saline or Silicone:
Saline is viewed as a much safer choice, if your implant were to ever rupture inside your body it would be absorbed.

Leaked silicone has been found in locl and distant lymph nodes

Silicone feels more like breast tissue (saline does not)

Silicone also increased of capsular contracture which is a complication of breast surgery which occurs if the scar around the omplant begind to tighten

Recovery: up to 4 days after surgery down time
A complete process takes up to six weeks (just like havin a baby)
Risk Factors are minimal if patient is in good health ( UMMM what is minimal? and what does good health mean?)

Cost $: surgeon fees $3,000- $4,000
Saline Implant cost range from $950-1300
Silicone $1,800

I don't know about you but that changes my thoughts about getting plastic surgery what are your thoughts.
And there is also anesthesia and operating fees included with price.
sources: google.com and awfulplasticsurgery.com

PLASTIC DISASTERS

CHANGE THIS, LIFT THAT, TUCK THAT. wHAT HAPPENED TO BEING HAPPY WITH THE WAY GOD MADE U? SO MANY OF US WANT TO CHANGE OUR APPEARANCES TO AN IMAGE OF HOW SOCIETY SAYS WE SHOULD LOOK . I HAVE CONSIDERED GETTING SOME WORK DONE MYSELF. IN MY QUEST TO FIND PERFECTION I DECIDED TO DO SOME RESEARCH AND SEE WHAT IS INVOLVED IN GETTING THESE PROCEDURES AND THE COST. IF YOU ARE CONSIDERING GETTING ANY PLASTIC SURGERY YOU MIGHT WANT TO CHECK OUT THIS INFO AS A PART OF YOUR RESEARCH. (top image infection of breast and side image is dead breast tissue does not list cause of dead tissue)

BREAST AUGMENTATION:

• IMPLANTS CAN BE INSERTED IN DIFFERENT WAYS: UNDERNEATH THE FOLD OF THE BREAST GOING THROUGH THE DARK PART OF THE NIPPLE OR INSERTING THE IMPLANT IN THE UNDERARM OR AXILLA AREA.
• SOME SURGEONS PLACE BREAST IMPLANTS THROUGH THE BELLY BUTTON TO AVOID SCARRING
  

Two types of implants can b used Saline or Silicone:
Saline is viewed as a much safer choice, if your implant were to ever rupture inside your body it would be absorbed.

Leaked silicone has been found in locl and distant lymph nodes

Silicone feels more like breast tissue (saline does not)

Silicone also increased of capsular contracture which is a complication of breast surgery which occurs if the scar around the omplant begind to tighten

Recovery: up to 4 days after surgery down time
A complete process takes up to six weeks (just like havin a baby)
Risk Factors are minimal if patient is in good health ( UMMM what is minimal? and what does good health mean?)

Cost $: surgeon fees $3,000- $4,000
Saline Implant cost range from $950-1300
Silicone $1,800

I don't know about you but that changes my thoughts about getting plastic surgery what are your thoughts.
And there is also anesthesia and operating fees included with price.
sources: google.com and awfulplasticsurgery.com

Women On The Move

Livin your Dreams

FEAR OF FLYING OR NOT

Fear is a paralyzing state of mind that keeps you stagnant mentally, physically, and spiritually. It deters dreams, goals, and reaching your full potential. This segment allows you to share your dreams. And how you are soaring to new heights because of them. My dream is to let my voice be heard, and gives people food for thought. Let people know its hard living life but nothing is impossible with God on your side. I want to spread encouraging words to everyone. I want to uplift females because it's difficult bringing home the bacon and frying it in a pan. Sometimes it's difficult to share your dreams with family and peers because of negative reactions. At this site you will receive positive feedback and advice from peers. So please send your dreams to twigs31@excite.com. We are all flying to our summit on the mountains.